Two Deadly Attraction Tips
If you want to meet women and date them, you'll need to work on your inner game by studying the fundamentals of attraction. Otherwise, it's like going into battle without a weapon if you don't know how to grab a woman's attention.
Are you prepared to lock and load? Here's how to do it:
#1: Don't Pay Attention To Your Thoughts
Paying too much attention to all the crazy stuff in your thoughts will ruin your game, even if you don't realise it.
A man can become so fixated on what will happen next that he chokes and jeopardises his chances even further. This is a habit you should be aware of so that you can intervene if you notice your mind wandering down that path again.
Our minds have a way of giving us our worst worries, yet these anxieties are usually exaggerated.
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Talking to a woman and saying "hello" isn't a frightening experience, and your life isn't on the line here. So what if she tells you to go somewhere else? Take what you've learned and go on.
When it's their turn, first-time skydivers hesitate, but once they've taken the leap and parachuted back to earth, they'll realise there was nothing to worry about in the first place.
Overthinking something, on the other hand, only adds to your hesitancy. Don't let yourself get to the point where the prospect of striking up a conversation makes you completely terrified.
Make a short observation of the girl you're interested in and utilise it to start a discussion. Don't spend too much time thinking about it.
Have you noticed her cool necklace? Inquire as to where she obtained it. Is she wearing a shirt with a deliberately amusing print? "What's the storey behind that?" you might inquire.
You'll be able to start a chat from there. It's not as difficult as you may believe.
The first step in anything important is always the most difficult. The less time you spend debating whether or not to take that first step, the faster you'll be able to go forward.
#2: Keep In Mind That Life is Abundant.
Remember how I said that attraction isn't a life or death situation? That's because being turned down doesn't imply there aren't any other options available.
In fact, there are so many women in the globe that even if you tried, you wouldn't be able to date them all. That means you'll have all the learning opportunities you'll ever need until you find your stride and establish a solid set of seduction skills.
If you're rejected, don't get too worked up about it. Don't worry if you can't find any other girls; they're out there whether you want them or not.
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So, unless the end of the world occurs, there will never be a scarcity of women. If you don't succeed the first time, the universe will provide you with numerous opportunities to try again.
Why waste time and energy berating yourself on a single interaction? It simply indicates that it was not meant to be.
Typical guys (read: those who haven't bothered to develop seduction skills) will blame it on some alleged personality flaw. They'll believe they're condemned to be alone for the rest of their lives, and their minds will be filled with doomsday scenarios.
They're already sure that if they attempt again, they'll be denied. They'll then bring their self-fulfilling prophecy to fruition.
You, however, are not one of them. You'll brush it off, wonder what the problem was with that girl (maybe she was having a bad day), and be relieved you don't have to waste any more time on her.
(Besides, she wasn't trying to break your ego - that's something only you can do.)
Then it's time to use what you've learned and MOVE ON.
It can be beneficial to develop a sense of detachment from the outcome and instead concentrate on improving your game. Why should you care so much about what a stranger thinks?
Rejection is an inevitable part of the learning process, so don't let it fool you into thinking that all the excellent ones have already been taken. You're only one step closer to gaining a girl's phone number and asking her out on a date. In the meantime, you'll have lots of opportunities to improve.
These two tips, which we just discussed, are exemplified by the most successful men I know. They recognise that life is a succession of near-misses. With enough experience, you'll be able to limit your errors and discover what genuinely works.
