Five of the Best Places to Meet Women
You might think of the regular areas to meet women when considering the greatest approach to meet ladies. You can go to any pub, club, or other location where ladies expect to be hit on.
Then you go through the routine of approaching a girl, making a clever remark, offering to buy her a drink, and hoping for the best. Some men thrive in this type of environment, but it is not for everyone.
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Furthermore, there is a disadvantage to this strategy. For one thing, you're putting pressure on yourself (i.e., you and the female you're hitting on) before you've even begun the conversation.
People who visit these locations also don't normally act like themselves. There's nothing wrong with being in "party mode," but meeting individuals in this manner makes it difficult to get a good picture of a girl's true personality, especially if there's drink involved.
Some people believe that going to regular, daily areas where there is no pressure is the greatest way to meet ladies. There are a number of places where you and the women you want to meet can find plenty of common ground.
Consider this: these places already have a pool of qualified applicants that share your interests, so you've already done some legwork by restricting your search.
#1: Bookshops
If you enjoy reading, this is a terrific location to meet ladies who may share your literary tastes – or at the very least have enough in common with you to discuss your favourite writers and books. Simply go to the section where you spend the most time and see if somebody catches your attention, then utilise your expertise of books to strike up a discussion.
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Offer your thoughts on the book she's reading, or if you're unfamiliar with the genre, ask for hers. Who knows, maybe you'll strike up a fascinating conversation that you can continue at a neighbouring coffee shop.
#2: Gyms Center
So maybe books aren't your thing and you prefer to do things with your hands. No worry — these establishments are teeming with attractive, health-conscious women that share your passion for fitness. You just have to be careful about your timing; you can't approach a female in the middle of her set. If she's grunting while performing squats or lifting weights, she's unlikely to reply to your opening line. Also, just because you're hot and sweaty doesn't mean you can compliment her on her physique or how fantastic her bottom looks in spandex. Don't be a creep and keep it clean!
#3: Everything To Do With Music
Music is a good excuse for people to get together and appreciate something that appeals to them on a personal level, whether it's concerts, independent album debuts, or acoustic sets at coffee shops. Again, music-themed establishments attract women who are fans of the same artists as you, giving you the perfect opportunity to debate who the best acid jazz band of the last decade is.
#4: Volunteering
This is one feature you can play up to attract the girls if you have a soft heart for a good cause. Women are drawn to men who are concerned about something other than themselves, so your selflessness can be a terrific way to meet someone who is also interested in volunteering.
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Because these organisations are so passionate about what they do, women who join them are likely to be just as passionate about their mission. You'll have plenty of time to work closely with these women and bond with them via shared experiences if you can match their enthusiasm for volunteering.
#5: Banks, Supermarkets, and Theme Parks
What are the similarities and differences between these locations? All of them require standing in a lengthy line at a counter, and standing in a long line isn't the most pleasurable of human pursuits. Offering respite in the form of a light, casual conversation can help to break up the monotony.
It helps to laugh at how inconvenient it is to wait for your turn. To attract her attention and start a discussion, say something like, "If this line gets any slower, I'm going to sprout a beard" or "This sure beats watching the paint dry."
Look, if you want to meet gorgeous girls who are ready to party, you can beat the proverbial dead horse by hitting the club scene. But consider this: do you really want to approach a group of strangers with whom you have little in common? Or do you think you'd have a greater chance with other strangers?
Picking up girls in bars is the most obvious approach, but it's not always the best way to meet women.
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Consider how much easier your life would be if you truly understood how to communicate with and relate to good women.
