How to Make Sure Your Strategy Doesn't Fail
Every regular Joe wishes he knew how to protect himself from succumbing to self-doubt, anxiety, and the general fear of "theapproach." Are you one of those irritated dudes that is trapped in a dating rut?
Is it possible that an invisible barrier is preventing you from actually succeeding with women? Do you want to know how to become the kind of cool man that women can't wait to hang out with?
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You can put "love at first sight" out of your mind. Have you ever considered what actually happens at that crucial moment?
That's what it is, and I'll tell you what it is. It's a collection of mental processes that have evolved over thousands of years. They're just a collection of mental patterns that have been passed down over the ages.
I'm not kidding when I say that a lady puts you through this qualification process in a matter of SECONDS. She'll have SIZED YOU UP from head to toe by the time you're done with your opener.
That is the reality. Now don't come to me and complain about how unfair that is. If you want to throw stones at them for being so judgmental, think about how you choose which women to date.
That's correct. Do you think to yourself, "Well, that fine female appears to be a kindhearted soul who will be suitable as my life mate" as that head-turning blonde walks by?
Sure, many men want more than a one-night encounter, but even men seeking a long-term relationship are capable of doing that split-second scan. You can only blame nature for instilling this mindset in us.
If you want to know why this is happening, all I can say is that human beings are COMPELLED to pair up with someone who demonstrates SOCIAL VALUE. But don't conceive of it in a purely material sense.
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A flashy car and a platinum credit card can give you a good gloss, but it's all for naught if you don't have a SELF-RESPECT mindset to back it up. And by "self-respect," I mean the kind of guy who doesn't prostitute himself to gain someone's approval – even (or rather, especially) if the other person is a beautiful lady who is constantly pursued.
That's why it's critical to distinguish yourself from the dozens of other men who have attempted and failed to pique that hot woman's interest. She's undoubtedly had lots of practise separating the guys from the AFCs, on top of her inherent radar.
A LOT of what you say and do sends out subliminal messages to her, letting her know whether you're a low-value or high-value guy. If you wish to fall into the latter category, keep a few things in mind.
Don't presume these things (also known as qualifying factors) are said aloud. The majority of social value indicators are SUBTLE, which is why many AFCs miss the mark.
The majority of the time, they say or do something seemingly insignificant that can make or break their game. Even women aren't aware that their attraction/repulsion switches are being changed around because it's so subtle.
Let's take the example of body language. Everyone talks about how vital it is, but no one knows how to portray it with the appropriate gestures and postures. When you HOVER around the girls you wish to chat with, it takes your approach back to square one.
Instead, you must appear CASUAL in order to avoid giving the appearance that you desire something from your target. As you unexpectedly tilt your head towards her and deliver your opening, it appears as if you're on your way somewhere else. After you've grabbed her attention, slowly turn your entire body towards her.
When men discover that women will remove their devotion once they know they WANT it, it can appear cold-hearted.
Don't blame them; this is simply nature at work. On a genetic level, they're simply terrified of associating with a low-value guy who could have harmed their chances of survival in ancient times.
Even if humanity has progressed in leaps and bounds, a portion of us remains locked in a bygone past. Consider that for a moment.
In any case, being spontaneous is key to a successful approach. Let's say you're at a party and you're hesitantly approaching a woman, your gaze shifting and your palms rubbing nervously.
That's a giant pile of FAIL in the making, guy.
You're out of the game even before you've made physical contact. She'll detect that tense energy in her subconscious mind, which indicates that you desire something from her.
And you have "LOW VALUE" written all over your face when you want something from her.
BUT, if it appears that you just happened to pass by and SUDDENLY felt compelled to strike up a "impromptu" (unplanned) chat...
Now we're having a conversation.
Have you seen the film "Serendipity"? Though I dislike girly films, I can understand why the concept of meeting a HIGH-VALUE person OUT OF THE BLUE is so intriguing to women.
"Who am I to reject fate if this qualified male just happened to run into me by chance?" a woman thinks when she sees the proper body language.
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And that's exactly what a smart strategy entails: seeming unconcerned (i.e., not eager to get her out of her pants!) because you're not attempting to win her approval.
We all know this is what you actually want...not that it's a bad thing, mind you. In any event, being casual about it reduces her chances of erecting a defensive shield to protect herself from lower-value males with whom YOU don't want to associate.
So you're conversing with a lovely lady and your hands are all fidgety. Perhaps you're fiddling with your drink or rubbing your hands. This is not a good thing.
Those motions scream anxiousness, which is yet another symptom of a low-value man. You must recognise that staying stationary (while still appearing comfortable) provides you a visual advantage over guys who can't stay put.
When you're trying to converse over loud music, leaning closer to your woman is also a good idea. You'll want to speak at a higher volume anyway, so don't waste your time coming forward because it will reduce your value.
You don't try to enter another person's space; instead, they should enter YOURS. As a result, you'll want to keep your feet roughly shoulder length apart and relaxed, WITHOUT revealing your nervousness with your hands.
Yes, even the good PUAs experience fear. When it comes to fear, the only difference between them and the AFCs is that they've become hardened to it.
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While they still feel fear, they no longer react to it by moving around excessively or not approaching the target at all.
This is the real explanation for the importance of your movements. They unwittingly reveal SO MUCH about you, so you might as well use your body language to send out HIGH-VALUE indicators.
The most amusing aspect of it all is that it's completely nonverbal. You can't just walk up to a lady and give her a list of reasons why you're a socially viable man who doesn't put others before himself.
Instead of telling her right away, you'll have to weave it into your entire game. You can IMPLY your CONFIDENCE by telling anecdotes about compromising situations... or by the unsaid message that your body delivers to them, as we've just described.
Remember that women are more receptive to subliminal messages, so feed her intuition with the RIGHT type of "high-value flags." This is the only method to kickstart her attraction circuitry and, as a result, gain access to her highness for a longer period of time.
Of course, the challenge is to keep her from noticing that you are putting her on a pedestal in the first place. That's the only way we can keep it a secret.
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Applying some of the tactics taught in my course, 'Supreme Self Confidence,' is another way to kickstart her attraction circuitry. It's a must-have for every guy who wants to maximise his potential for attraction:
That's all I've got for now... Also, please feel free to comment below with your thoughts on this!
