10 Signs She's Right For You
I vividly remember getting the call, the call I expected yet was surprised to get. My friend Johnny had gotten divorced after only ten months of marriage to a girl everyone knew was bad for him. Instead of being a happily-ever-after couple, Johnny and Marissa had become statistics, like millions of other Americans. Divorce statistics are all too common.
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It's funny how short-term marriages may lead to long-term misery. It usually starts with a severe case of "Oneitis."
Are you unfamiliar with the term Oneitis? Surely you're familiar with the signs and symptoms of this viral disease:
– You believe you've met the girl who is ideal for you, with whom you may form a strong bond and eventually married – You accept this girl's sassy conduct and abuse because you still believe she's "The One" - You see and know ladies who you know would be far better for you, but you ignore them because the girl you're with is prettier, taller, and skinnier–a variety of superficial attributes that don't sum up to the love you know you could find elsewhere.
– You spend a lot of money on her, but she never thanks you–or if she does, it's not sincere– All of your friends advise you that this girl isn't good for you, but you disregard their advice. – Perhaps your friends have argued with this girl, but you support her despite the fact that you know her behaviour is unacceptable – You ignore your friends and family to spend all of your time with this girl – You find yourself constantly phoning her to find out what she's up to and who she's with – Even when she's long gone, you can't get this girl out of your mind!
If you've ever seen the classic film Swingers, you'll recognise Oneitis as the character Mikey!
Unfortunately, many men end up becoming Mikeys in this world. While some men may just go through this with a girl they're dating, others, like as Johnny, take their obsession to marriage. And it is at this point that the "disease" becomes fatal.
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How can you tell whether a female is the one for you? I could write a book about what's good and what's wrong, but the bottom line is that there are ten key ingredients for long-term success:
She promotes and supports your ambitions and interests. A girl who is right for you should not try to reroute your course in her own direction. Johnny's wife, on the other hand, wanted him to pursue something completely different from what he wanted to accomplish, so it's no surprise that their romance faded out so quickly.
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Guys, you shouldn't be with the female if you can't be transparent about your feelings, interests, hobbies, and purpose. She should be able to listen and comprehend rather than dismiss and sneer.
You may accept her, her ambitions, and her passions. A woman should be able to encourage and push you in the direction you want to go, and you should be able to do the same for her. If she likes motorcycles and you don't, or if she wants to travel the world while you want to stay put, chances are you're not meant to be together.
You should be able to understand her feelings and concerns as well–both of you must be effective listeners.
She adores you for who you are, not what you have. So many wealthy and powerful men are in abusive relationships with their female partners. Why? Because the women are marrying their money rather than these men. And because divorce isn't cheap, even when these males break up with the bloodsuckers, the ladies get a sizable portion of the pie!
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She gets along well with your family and friends and isn't bothered by seeing them. So many men seem to forget this, watching helplessly as their girlfriend takes them away from their families and friends in order to have him all to herself. My uncle allowed himself to cut off all communication with his family since his wife despised them. They're still married, but is it the type of lady you want to spend your life with?
Spiritually, she and you are on the same page. Spirituality is important for couples because it has the power to bring them together like nothing else. I know a lot of happy married couples that believe in the same God, have the same life goal, and have the same strong sentiments about each other.
Couples who argue about life's big concerns, on the other hand, do not enjoy the same kind of loving romance. A girl who is right for you doesn't have to share your religious beliefs and dogmas, but if she is an atheist and you are a Christian, things may not work out in the long run.
She wants to spend as much time with you as she does with her family and friends. This may sound self-evident, yet a lot of males are smitten by girls who only see them on THEIR timetable. You shouldn't have to obsess over a girl or ask her permission to see her if she's the one for you. It's an indication that you're both in love if you both want to see each other and miss being with each other.
You both have feelings for the same person. You should definitely move on if you feel deep down in your heart that you want to marry her and spend the rest of your life with her, but she's non-committal and imprecise. A sincere, loving spouse should accept you for who you are and how you feel without reservation.
On the other side, you've found a true catch if you both feel comfortable sharing your sentiments with each other and she accepts the deep things you divulge to her.
Even with work and education, you both make time for one other. It is critical to spend quality time with one another. It's time to move on if your girl is always at her job, concentrating on her career, or studying for a degree, and not making an effort to be with you. True love knows no limitations, not even the passage of time. While it's great to have a girl who is serious about her career and education, if she takes either too seriously, it can be a relationship-breaker.
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Love is more essential than money and possessions. This is an easy one: If your girl just talks about her stuff and money, if those are her genuine values, you should end the relationship. Every girl wants good things in life, but if she truly loves you, the amount of money you make and the amount of money you offer her shouldn't be the most important factor in her decision.
You're both capable of putting each other first. This has the potential to make or shatter a relationship. You've got a winner if she's prepared to do things for you, sacrifice time with her friends or time at work to be with you and cook you meals. If she constantly cancels dates, spends more time with her friends than with you, and never buys you gifts or performs acts of service, you've met a bitch. Now is the time to move on. When she puts herself first rather than you, you're on the verge of a disaster.
Finally, you want a female who will accept you as you are and will treat you with respect at all times. If you're in a relationship and want to take it to the next level, consider whether the lady you're with meets these ten criteria. And if you're looking for love, don't go too far unless you're sure the female is treating you well.
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Remember, there's a great difference between "The One" who's right for you and "The One" who's not...
and "The One" who is going to be your worst nightmare!
That's all I've got for now. Tell me if there are any additional signs that she is the appropriate person for you. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this!
