Three Steps to Converting a Friend to a Lover
Hello, there!
Have you ever had feelings for one of your friends?
My buddy Maria admitted to me that she had done just that, and she now doesn't know what to do about it!
Perhaps you've been there as well.
You enjoy spending time with her...
and realised you're feeling something more than friendship...
You'd like to make it into something more.
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But how do you do it?
You might be wondering if she is aware of your feelings.
When it's 2 a.m. and you're awake in bed...
You might even wonder if it's possible...
…
Perhaps...
She has romantic feelings for you as well, but not as strong as you...
Because you're just buddies, she's keeping them hidden.
It's entirely possible that she has feelings for you, or that she has been drawn to you at various points in the past.
If you give it a chance, that attraction could quickly turn into feelings.
Here's the deal:
Even if she has feelings for you, she doesn't want to upset or break your friendship.
Isn't it the thing that's holding YOU back?
If you're drawn to her and want to make her your lover, the friendship must be very amazing.
Of course, some friendships do not remain strictly platonic.
Some people become friends with advantages.
Perhaps you appreciate this friendship, but she's also really attractive, and rumour has it that she's a fantastic kisser...
As a result, you must decide what you want from her.
The first step is to INFORM her of your intentions.
But…
But... and this is a big but...
Don't just say, "Hey, we're really good pals..."
"Would you like to take it a step further?"
Instead, you might leave a subtle hint and utilise a subtle strategy to let herhr know how you feel...
...yet still allowing you both to walk away if the sentiments aren't reciprocated.
"I used to have the biggest crush on you!" is a good example.
This is a fantastic technique to encourage greater interaction between you.
She doesn't have to respond immediately away, you see.
You may both walk away from that comment if she doesn't want anything more from you.
This comment might also be used to tease her. Is it true that you liked her before and still like her now?
Is that to say she'd have to work hard to get you back?
Her reaction will reveal a great deal.
Here are a few positive responses:
She smiles and offers you a longing stare...
She looks stunned for a moment before smiling to herself...
"Oh really?" she asks. "I'm with you."
OR... she asks... "How about right now?" says the narrator.
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"Wow, have you been working out...?" do a double take at her and remark.
or have I just been oblivious to your physique?"
"All of my friends don't understand how I can be only friends with someone so beautiful," tell her. (Or pleasant, sweet, amazing...)
"I've always thought you're attractive..." or "I've always thought you're attractive..."
If she doesn't respond to your hint, don't assume she's shutting down the prospect of more.
Because you're pals, it's possible that unlocking the door will surprise her, thus she'll require some time.
So, if she takes advantage of the opportunity, your small bombshell hint might yield immediate effects...
Alternatively, you may need to go to the next two stages.
Step Two – It's time to give her some time to think about it...or, more precisely, force her to think about it.
I'm not suggesting that you take a step back and cut her off from the friendship.
This is something that many ladies try... They express their emotions and then take a step back.
This has left her befuddled.
“Hey…
Wait a minute...she stated she liked me, but now she's completely gone? "Is she simply joking around with me?"
So don't go missing or try to avoid her at all costs.
Just don't bring it up or try to chat to her about it; instead, give her some space while sending seductive messages.
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If it turns out she merely wants friendship, giving her some space will help to alleviate the awkwardness.
It allows her to express herself.
It's also time to assess how she's reacting before moving on to stage three.
So here is Step 2.5 — Is she reciprocating your feelings?
She might have been taken aback at first.
Just a moment...
Is she a fan of mine?
Or…
Is she a fan of mine as well?
It's conceivable she was previously drawn to you but didn't consider a relationship or his sentiments.
Or perhaps she was attracted to you and fantasised about something happening.
But she didn't think you were on the same page previously, no matter where she was...
Alternatively, she would have taken action.
Her is now confronted with the idea of a relationship between the two of you.
It's a completely different ballgame now!
That's why you should take your time with this.
She probably didn't answer right away if she was surprised. It's possible that her has plummeted Your prolonged gaze drew his focus away from you.
So give it a few weeks to see whether she responds with signals.
Is she a flirt? Do you get a lingering stare from her? Is she touching you more now?
Does she make an effort to see you more often? Showing up where you're supposed to be or requesting to hang out?
She might be attracted to you even if you don't observe any visible evidence of flirting.
Because, remember, you haven't yet poured it on. You made it clear that you expected more from her.
So, see if she's giving you any good vibes...
or if she shied away from you or gave you the cold shoulder.
If you see THE SIGN, you'll know something's up...
You know, that sly sidelong glance....
That's when a woman gives you a sidelong glance, mistaking you for someone else.
However, you do. You notice her casting a variety of glances your way.
Or the glance in the elevator...
You take a step back, but his gaze follows you down your body.
If she's looking at you, his mind has already gone to: Whoa, she likes me...
I can't seem to quit staring...
It's possible that there's anything here.
She might stare into your eyes and get twitter-patted if she's the emotional sort.
When you see some signal on his part—and keep in mind that she might play it cool to maintain the friendship—move on to step three.
The final step is to pour it on!
You believe there's something there, so now it's time to put it to the test.
It's time to flirt and let her know you're okay...
BUT...you're giving her permission to pursue you.
You don't want to pursue her down and ruin the fun.
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You're going to entice her, tease her, and entice her to come here.
Wear something sultry but mysterious, allowing his imagination to run wild.
It's fine if you attract a few other women as well—a it's good idea to inform your friend turned crush that you're a hot single man.
Allow your body language to entice her in.
When you chat to her, face her, lean in, and let your flirty girl side out.
Allow her to grab the bait by being your hot, sexy, manly self.
To put it another way, don't go after her.
"Hey, I really like you and want to see where this goes," you can say to a guy on a few occasions.
It could be possible to talk about all of this if you're excellent friends.
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However, it's always a good idea to start with a gentle approach and make her feel like she's chasing you.
For both of you, this is exciting.
So, how much time do you think you should give her?
Pull back after a week if you're hauling out the big sexy weapons and he's not biting.
That might be enough to pique his interest. Then she might have a look at you.
Turning a buddy into a lover may be a lot of fun and fulfilling.
He's already familiar with you and likes you.
Use these three techniques to transform your friend into a lover and possibly more.
