How To Use Romance To Attract A Woman
I'd like to reorganise whatever notions you may have about ROMANCE. I believe that many men are squandering their chances of winning a female due to misunderstandings regarding the subject.
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If any of this sounds similar, please let me know. Guy invites girl out on their first date, she accepts, and the guy pulls out all the stops: flowers, chocolates, and dinner for two at the most expensive restaurant in town.
The girl then FREAKS OUT in the most natural way possible.
Why? Simply put, she is cornered, pressed, and rushed into feeling things that are imposed on her.'
'INSTEAD of being forced to go through these predetermined feelings on her own.
Listen up: going out on a date with a budget suited for a blockbuster film does not equal a romantic evening.
What I want to impress upon you right now is the significance of being romantic, as well as how to NATURALLY elicit such feelings in her.
The goal is to focus on improving your general attitude and mindset in order to achieve romantic awesomeness. Being romantic isn't something you can put on and take off as you see fit.
It's an authentic aspect of your personality that will show out in the various scenarios you'll encounter with her. Whether you're approaching her for the first time or going on your hundredth date with your partner, romance should pervade the entire experience.
But, exactly, what does it mean to be romantic? She needs to sense your ATTRACTION for her from the start.
Otherwise, you'll be sent into the PLATONIC FRIENDS zone with the rest of the other males who have been exiled. By comparison, getting out of the Bermuda Triangle will look much easier.
So your girlfriend has to receive the idea that you can't get enough of her feminine charms. It's so difficult that you feel forced to learn more about her and what makes her tick.
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What woman wouldn't be intrigued (at the very least!) to learn that a self-assured dude is interested in her?
Is it necessary to be crass, vulgar, or PUSHY in order to make it known that you're into her and that she's taken over your mind? Obviously not.
It's all about ESCALATION when it comes to romance. Begin by dropping imprecise signals about your genuine feelings until you've gained enough familiarity and comfort to move forward.
You obtain the chick by hatching the egg, not by crushing it, as the expression goes (appropriately). 'Smashing the egg' is when you go for the usual way of overkill on your first date.
As long as you're constant in your efforts to turn up the heat, baby steps never hurt anyone.'
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‘and not allowing the relationship to suffocate.
If you hit the iron after it has cooled down, a competent blacksmith understands you won't be able to build anything valuable!
So, here are a few unorthodox ways to amp up the romance without coming across like a sap:
- The importance of humour cannot be overstated. No guy ever got anywhere with a female until he first made her laugh. Laughter is the most effective weapon for loosening her up and making her feel better.
Just make sure it's not self-deprecating humour, because having her laugh (too much) at you isn't a good thing. Sure, make light of something amusing that has happened to you in the past, but don't make jokes about 'what a loser you are' (or anything along those lines)'she might believe you!
- Figure out how to push the envelope a little bit. You can do this by mocking her, making fun of her, and giving her a funny and lovely "hard time."
When a guy pokes fun at them in a playful (read: NOT mean-spirited) way, many women like it. It speaks a lot about his self-assurance when he isn't scared to test the waters.
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- Don't be scared to talk about sexual issues as long as it's done in good taste and in the appropriate setting. Of course, you'll want to proceed with caution in this situation.
When you meet her for the first time, you certainly don't want to chat about sex. However, if she brings up the matter on your third date, feel free to bring it up in a light and informal manner.
Just remember not to be graphic, and don't quiver or appear uneasy when discussing it. The aim is to show her that you are unconcerned about the subject.
After all, it's all part of the process of building up the tension to a nice, seething boil. The term "slow burn" takes on a new meaning in this context.
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- Discuss your feelings. Women have an innate ability to communicate and discuss their emotions, whether they are happy or sad. Get her to talk about her ROMANTIC sentiments by using this to your advantage.
To refresh your memory on what I mentioned the last time, ask her questions about romance. Consider an event you witnessed or heard about, then describe it to her, offer your viewpoint, and inquire about her thoughts.
This is an excellent approach for her to link you to the emotions you want her to experience. You can bet she'll think of you romantically when she thinks about you.
- Look for an excuse to touch her. Again, especially if you're just getting to know her, this must be done in good taste. This means only caressing non-erogenous zones that won't get you into trouble.
If she's going to sit down, for example, guide her with your hand on the small of her back (but not lower than that). Also, touch her hand (only) a few times during a chat when you're focusing on a specific point.
The goal is to get her habituated to making physical touch with you, as COMFORT is the key to romance. A passage from the film "Pulp Fiction" sums it up perfectly:
'There's this sensuous thing going on that no one's talking about, but YOU and SHE are aware of it."
Isn't that the case? Just because you're touching her in a completely neutral location doesn't mean it won't have an effect on her subconscious.
There's nothing wrong with a little ambiguity in your life. Red-hot attraction in a woman's mind starts with questions like, 'Is he into me or isn't he into me??'
You have no idea how wonderful it feels to know she is thinking about you in that way. – While the clichéd image of romance has faded, chivalry remains fashionable. Make it a point to open the door for her as she gets in and out of the car or enters a restaurant (preferably not one that costs an arm and a leg, but whatever).
Make a joint order for the two of you by recommending a food or drink that you think she'll enjoy. If she likes something else, don't make a huge issue about it; let her order what she wants, but take the initiative to make a decision (in a non-pushy way of course).
However, there is one exception to all of this: your motions should correspond to the amount of interest between you two. If you're on your second date, it's a good idea to keep the mushy things to a minimum. TEASING rather than going all out with the romanticism is more suitable.
If you're already sleeping together, it's safe to assume you're ready for the next level of romance. Your girl now has more access to your soft side because you've already achieved a key milestone (as compared to when you just met).
(Of course, unless you want to wind up single fast, you're not going to tell her you can't do things for her because she doesn't deserve it yet.) Just give out the appropriate amount of affection at the appropriate time!)
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In general, you'll want to make her feel SPECIAL in a way that fits the current status of your relationship. It takes a keen eye to see these minute distinctions, but with practise, you'll develop a sixth instinct for them.
However, if you want to speed up the learning process, here's how to MASTER the foundations of sure-fire seduction and truly get the pyrotechnics going:
